The morning of
Half the photographs you'll frame are taken before noon in a bedroom, and almost nobody plans that room. It needs exactly this much: window light, one great mirror, a rack that holds the dress like it matters, and a steamer — the most important appliance of the entire day, and the one everyone forgets until a bridesmaid is ironing chiffon through a towel at 9 a.m.
The robes are for the photograph, and that's a fine reason; the set pays for itself the moment four of you stand at the window holding coffee. Flats wait on the quilt for the hour the heels surrender. And the silk pillowcase goes on the night before — the morning face is part of the plan too. Flowers in this room are the leftovers from the bouquet trimming, in whatever jar the house offers, and they're always the best arrangement of the day.
About $290 for the whole morning. — Ana
The manifest
The most important appliance of the day.
Looks inherited. Isn't.
For the one photograph everyone takes.
Set of four; the window photo pays for them.
For the hour the heels surrender.
The something-borrowed stand-in.
The night before matters too.
Bouquet trimmings in a borrowed jar — the best arrangement of the day.
Or tap the room itself
Same room, live — every number is a pin.
The two things you can't order from a truck
The flowers come from a florist in your town. The paper — watch it take your names.